Episode 472: How I’m Unlearning the Need to Hustle & Giving Myself Permission to Make My Own “Rules”

Have you ever caught yourself choosing work over something that actually matters even after you’ve done everything “right”? That’s exactly what happened to me, and it made me pause in a way I didn’t expect. When my podcast guest cancelled, I decided to record a solo episode instead. Shortly after, I received a call from the school nurse that my son wasn’t feeling well and needed to be picked up. But instead of immediately going to get him, my first thought was whether I could still get some work done. That moment stopped me. Because I’ve intentionally built a life with flexibility. I don’t have to release an episode every Wednesday. I set my own schedule. I make the rules. And yet, that instinct to prioritize work was still there. In this episode, I open up about something we don’t talk about enough in the financial freedom conversation: reaching your goal is one milestone, but trusting it and allowing yourself to fully live within it is something entirely different. The same hustle that helps you build your life can also begin to limit you, and achieving freedom doesn’t automatically undo the conditioning that got you there. In this episode, I discuss:

• Why the habits that helped you reach financial freedom can begin to work against you
• The difference between knowing you have flexibility and actually feeling it
• What I’m still learning about modeling both rest and resilience for my kids
• The deeper, often overlooked work of learning to trust the life you’ve built + more

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