Ep. 466 Tired of Toxic Love? Let’s Talk Breaking the Bare Minimum Cycle ft. Kamilla Davis

podcast October 28, 2025

Tired of Toxic Love? Let’s Talk Breaking the Bare Minimum CycleWe’re TIRED. Like… “pour me another drink and block his number” tired. This week, Kiki and Medinah are talking all things toxic love — from those “situationships” that drain your energy to the men who swear they’re emotionally available but can’t even text back.Our guest, comedian Kamilla Davis (@kdaviscomedy), joins us for some real and raw girl talk about love, loyalty, and the lies we tell ourselves to stay in bad relationships. We’re laughing through the pain, unpacking manipulation disguised as “effort,” and getting honest about how to finally choose peace over potential.If you’ve ever felt stuck in something that looked like love but felt like labor, this one’s for you. Tune in for laughs, healing, and a few hard truths about what it really means to stop entertaining the bare minimum.Chapters:00:00:02 – Intro: We’re Tired, Sis00:01:14 – Host Catch-Up00:05:22 – Meet Kamilla Davis00:12:42 – Game Time00:20:09 – Luteal Phase Realness00:31:33 – The Dog Drama00:36:05 – Leftovers and Letdowns00:41:16 – When Love Feels Like Labor00:55:22 – Clean House, Clear Mind01:12:52 – Laugh Through the Pain🛒 Support the Show For all promo codes and links for promotions in the episode as well as other current offers, follow this link: https://linktr.ee/cocktalesadsGo to www.brooklynbedding.com and use our promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% offsitewide. This offer is not available anywhere else.

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