Ep. 142 – How an Infection Led Us to Autism with Nykyta

In this heartfelt episode of Autism for Badass Moms, hostRashidah sits down with Nykyta "Kyta" Arnold, a Georgia mom of three, to share the story of her youngest son Omry's autism journey. After the infection resulted in hearing loss, speech therapy was recommended to support his development. It was during those therapy sessions that the possibility ofautism was first raised.

Nykyta opens up about navigating the uncertainty ofdevelopmental delays, processing an unexpected diagnosis, and learning to trust her instincts as a mother. She reflects on the fears, questions, and emotional challenges that many autism moms face, while also sharing how her experienceraising two neurotypical boys helped prepare her for a path she never anticipated.

Throughout the conversation, Nykyta discusses faith,resilience, advocacy, and the importance of embracing the child in front of you rather than the expectations you once held. Her story is a reminder that while life can change in an instant, parents are often stronger than they realize.

Whether you're newly navigating a diagnosis or years intoyour journey, this episode offers encouragement, understanding, and hope from a mother who has walked a similar path.

In this episode, we discuss:

0:00 – Episode Intro
0:55 – Guest bio — Nykyta Arnold
3:27 – Welcome Nykyta / getting into her story
3:48 – Omry's story begins — birthday party, high fever, urgent carevisit
7:33 – The 4 AM call: positive bacteria test, rushed back to thehospital
9:36 – How Motrin actually saved Omry's life (the anaphylactic reaction)
11:10 – Motrin allergy revealed + urticaria explained
14:10 – Nykyta’s cousin (the pediatric nurse) spots hearing loss
15:16 – Babies Can't Wait program fast-tracks Omry to speech therapy
15:48 – Speech therapist recommends autism testing
17:21 – Diagnosis around Omry’s second birthday
17:22 – Anger, guilt, and the "what ifs"
19:37 – Carrying the blame of daycare during COVID
19:38 – How is Omry doing now? ABA therapy, first words, sassy attitude
26:18 – Finding community — the power of autism mom groups
27:22 – Nykyta starts giving back (inclusive Santa experience)
29:49 – Where to find Nykyta
33:10 – Message to the mom struggling with the "what ifs"
34:08 – "Give yourself grace. You are not alone."

Connect with Nykyta:

Instagram: www.instagram.com/jasmine_amore

Instagram: www.instagram.com/omar.autism.support

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