Ep. 110 – The Story Behind My Decision with Emely

In this week’s powerful episode of Autism for Badass Moms, host Rashidah sits down with Emely Vanessa Zavala, a proud Latina mom from Los Angeles whose story will touch your heart.

At just 2 years old, Emely’s son Justin was diagnosed with autism — and like so many of us, she thought the hardest part was behind her. But when Justin turned 8, his aggressive meltdowns and self-injurious behavior became more than Emely could manage alone. As a single mother without a support system, she faced one of the most painful decisions a parent can ever make: finding a home away from home for her child.

In this heartfelt conversation, Emely opens up about the quiet grief that followed, the strength it took to keep going, and how she turned her pain into purpose by advocating for other parents walking similar paths. Today, she continues her journey — balancing motherhood, advocacy, and her studies in Sociology — determined to be a voice for those who feel unseen and unheard.

Tune in and be inspired by Emely’s story of love, loss & advocacy.

If you enjoyed this episode and would like to connect with Emely:

Instagram: www.instagram.com/emmyinla

Listen now and don’t forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode!

Share this episode with someone who needs to hear they’re not alone.

Follow us on Instagram @theabmpodcast and our community page @theabmcommunity, plus catch more on TikTok and YouTube: Autism for Badass Moms.