Ghosting, Stonewalling, Emotionally Unavailable…oh my I just need some space

This is the Replay of the Live May 15th show, Title: Ghosting, Stonewalling, Emotionally Unavailable…oh my I just need some space … Let’s have a conversation about Communication and Attachment Styles.

 

Attachment Style Quiz

 

What can attachment theory teach you about yourself and your relationships? : Life Kit : NPR

 

• Official Video after the show
• Lyrics on chat, from what was played

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m3Yhj7vIk1o

S P A C E D Amber Mark

 

I know, it is hard to comprehend

Why won’t, you let me be in my head?

Alone, I need to be

So don’t straight up come walking in

I tried, to warn you many times

Now, don’t want to start a fight

But I, can’t go on this way

So why, won’t you just give me some time?

 

En Vogue Hold On!

https://youtu.be/pj9ap3-HVzE

 

The art of playing games now

Is not the hearts you break

It’s about good love you make

When his heart’s on fire

Give him love every day

Remember he needs space

Be patient and he’ll give his heart to you

 

Chris Brown

Grass ain’t greener

 

Grass Ain’t Greener – YouTube Music

 

https://youtu.be/elsAYGFVMdY

 

Lyrics

 

chris brown grass ain’t greener lyrics – Google Search

 

You used to be the one to talk to on the side

Waiting for my love to break up

It’s crazy how your ass can walk through every night

Acting like you been a player

That grass ain’t greener on the other side

Oh, yeah

That grass ain’t greener on the other side

Oh, yeah

Seems like ain’t nothing cool about being real

No one’s honest about what they feel

Take a ho and try to treat her well

She’ll be back up at the club again

I know what you want, but you’re not gon’ get it

That’s enough for sure, got you vibing with me

You do what you want with somebody else

I’m gone, baby

 

 

Signs of a secure attachment style include:

1. ability to regulate your emotions.
2. easily trusting others.
3. effective communication skills.
4. ability to seek emotional support.
5. comfortable being alone.
6. comfortable in close relationships.
7. ability to self-reflect in partnerships.
8. being easy to connect with.

 

4 Types of Attachment: What’s Your Style?

 

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/soloish/wp/2018/08/16/knowing-your-attachment-style-could-make-you-a-smarter-dater/

 

http://www.web-research-design.net/cgi-bin/crq/crq.pl

 

 

https://www.psychalive.org/why-cant-you-move-on-from-your-relationship/

https://books.google.com/books?id=vCh9fXUiUjwC&pg=PT11&lpg=PT11&dq=attached+book+50+percent+secure+20+percent+anxious&source=bl&ots=HzwoZaRdC9&sig=WHMTnjrfS09feaHE6qon9pDMGw4&hl=en&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjNuIuNkO_cAhXE5YMKHdByBpAQ6AEwEXoECAAQAQ#v=onepage&q=attached%20book%2050%20percent%20secure%2020%20percent%20anxious&f=false