20. How to stay in Discovery Mode

In the last solo, I talked about the dangers of seeking “the one” and making your partner your everything. So how do we avoid falling into that trap? Discover mode, and in this episode I’m going deeper on what that means and how to do it.

In this episode of Open Late

• So what is discovery mode?
• The importance of setting common and independent goals
• Creating mystery in long term relationships 
• Using time apart to strengthen the relationship 
• Being intentional with building community

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Check out episode 18: The Danger of “The One”

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