Questions Nobody Asked Us 6/21/25

Nique and Ress sit down to unpack a handful of real-life questions pulled from online advice threads—covering everything from dating doubts to deeper insecurities.

We start with a man feeling insecure about his sexual performance compared to his partner’s ex, . Then, we offer reassurance to an 18-year-old feeling behind in love and life, encouraging patience and focusing on growth at your own pace. There's a 62-year-old single father of two young children navigating dating and we give him some honest answers about why he is struggling to find a match. Meanwhile, a young woman trying to decode mixed signals from a date is reminded that actions—not likes or emojis—tell the real story. There's a question around a former high school bully-turned-coworker .And finally, we talk through a man’s insecurities about his girlfriend’s sexual past. Throughout the episode, we share our usual mix of humor, empathy, and personal stories, wrapping up with some powerful reminders about self-worth, boundaries, and what it really means to put yourself first.