I Should’ve Known By The Way You Kissed Me: We Ignore What We Already Know (Featuring Jhazzy Jhané Joiner)

We’ve all had that moment.

The one where something felt off… but we stayed anyway.

In this conversation with Jhamyne “Jhazzy” Joyner, we unpack the difference between lust, love, and longing and the ways we ignore our own intuition in the moment. From intense chemistry and love bombing to slow burns and emotional awareness, this episode is about learning how to recognize what your body already knows.

If it isn’t love… what is it?

And more importantly…why do we keep choosing it?

What We Get Into

1. The difference between lust, love, and longing
2. Why intense chemistry can feel right—but still be wrong
3. Love bombing vs. the slow burn
4. Mistaking physical intimacy for emotional connection
5. Ignoring red flags we definitely saw
6. Learning to trust your intuition in relationships
7. What it really means to “do it for the plot” (and why it backfires)

It’s About DAMN Time

It’s about damn time we listen to our intuition when it comes to love…

and stop ignoring what we already know.

About the Guest

Jhamyne “Jhazzy” Joyner is a poet, creative, and storyteller currently working on her upcoming poetry book, I Should’ve Known by the Way You Kissed Me, a project that explores lust, love, longing, and loss through lived experiences and reflection.

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