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Family Secret & Holiday Pressure

podcast November 25, 2025


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Ever notice how the holidays have a way of forcing conversations you’ve been avoiding? When someone you’re dating wants to introduce their whole life to yoursbut you’ve been keeping parts of that life hidden,it’s not just awkward timing. It’s a moment of truth.

A listener named Kayla shares:

“I’ve been dating this guy for 10 months and things are getting serious. He has a five-year-old son from a previous relationship, and I’ve met him a few times. But I haven’t told my parents he has a kid yet. I know I should have mentioned it earlier, but it felt too soon, and now it feels too late. My family’s having their big holiday dinner, and he wants to bring his son. Do I tell them before he comes, or should I ask him to come next year instead?”

In this episode, Damona unpacks what’s really happening beneath the surface: it’s not your parents’ reaction you’re most afraid of,it’s committing fully to a relationship that includes a child. You’ll hear why silence and omission create more distance than honesty ever will, and how to move from avoidance to authentic integration with your family.

What You’ll Hear In This Episode:

  • The weight of carrying a secret

  • Why dating someone with a child is a high-stakes situation

  • How to reframe your own expectations to accept the full picture of someone’s life

  • The difference between protecting hiding 

  • The hidden opportunity in a holiday meet up

Want to track what’s working (and what’s not) in your dating life? Download the free Date Tracker at damonahoffman.com/datetracker

Got a relationship question? DM @DamonaHoffman on Instagram, TikTok, or Facebook, or leave a voicemail or text at 424-246-6255

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