Episode 031: Completely Fabricated

Travis is starting a new segment this week called “Did You Know?”. The control freak in Stephanie is a little nervous. Travis will be searching the web for relationship facts and introducing them for discussion's sake. Today’s fact ended up putting both Stephanie and Travis in the hot seat regarding their exes and former hook-ups. 

How long does a woman have to wait before having penetrative sex after birthing a baby or having a a cesarean? What we all accept as fact may be a false tradition with a cringe worthy origin story. Travis feels betrayed, Stephanie is shocked, but not surprised. 

On this week's “Oh So Y’all Can Relate?”, titled: Your Cop Boyfriend Is Not Invited To Our Wedding, Stephanie issues an apology to the person who submitted the story. It was a layered conversation that included discussions about race, policing, family dynamics, using the N word, boundaries, acceptance, and so much more. When does defending yourself become disrespectful? When people disagree and it leads to an argument, someone wants to win. This leads to low blows and sharing of hurtful words that can't be taken back. It wasn't an easy conversation to say the least.