EP52: Not Sure If This Is an Ebb or a Flow, But We’re Here for It

In this week’s episode of So What Now?, we dive into parenting highs, lows, and the unexpected in-betweens. Dex kicks things off by sharing her experience at a frat party with Mikaela – the drinks, the vibes, the “what am I doing here?” moments. Meanwhile, Carla continues her fight with the public school system to get the proper support Psalm needs — it’s real, it’s frustrating, and she doesn’t hold back.

The convo then takes a sharp (and fuzzy?) turn to Kim Kardashian’s latest business move: faux-fur thong panties. Yes, you read that right. They’re sold out, and we’re asking: What is going on out here?! Wild or genius? Maybe both.

We also unpack Kim’s recent interview on the Call Her Daddy podcast, where she gets vulnerable about co-parenting with Kanye and reflects on choosing a partner who didn’t live up to the legacy her own father left. This hit Carla hard, she opens up about the deep guilt she’s carrying around the choices she made in her own relationships — especially when it comes to her kids’ fathers. It’s raw, real, and a reminder that healing isn’t linear.

The episode closes with a reflective but practical list: 13 decisions to make by 45 so you don’t have regrets at 70. From finances to friendships to finally putting yourself first, we break them down and share where we’re at on the list.

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