Women

In this episode, the ladies discuss cuffing season and how growing up as an “oreo” has led them to being use to not being cuffed during this time. They discuss how to decide if participating in cuffing season is right for you and how the cultural phenomenon is linked to […]

In this episode, the hosts discuss what it is like being an introvert and how society’s expectations and stereotypes of black women make it harder to be accepted as an introvert. The discussion explores how being an introverted black woman at work has more repercussions than for white and asian […]

In this episode the hosts discuss the importance and significance of the black female friendships they have in their lives. Amari gives a personal update and open ups about her friends reaching out when she decided not to be as social. Rachel gives us tips on how to support a […]

In this episode, the hosts discuss their musical taste and how it affected their experience growing up with their peers. The women open up about liking music that does not fit the stereotype for black people (ex. hip hop, rap) and the comments they received for liking “white people music.” […]

In this episode, the So-Called Oreos have a very interesting conversation about… soulmates! The hosts go into detail about the four types of soulmates we encounter in our lifetime after a quick discussion about Love is Blind (first 12 minutes). The women attempt to describe the indescribable feeling of what […]

In this episode, the So-Called Oreos give a brief history on how Women’s History Month came to be. The four hosts dive into how the comments and actions of white women have caused them to feel disconnected to the overall idea of feminism. Kia tells her experience of white women […]

In this episode, the hosts share some stats on key trends around what the future of dating looks like as well as what some of the current pain points of dating during COVID are based on a survey from Iris, a NY-based dating app. Later, the four women dive into […]

In this episode, the Oreos break down what exactly it means to be an ally. From checking your privilege to buying from black-owned businesses, the hosts give in-depth explanations on every way you can be an ally in every aspect of life. We Shouldn’t Talk About This Podcast: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/we-s…is/id1494905754 Thank you […]

The four women briefly discuss the current protests and the Tulsa Race Massacre of 1921 before heading into the topic of ending toxic friendships. Janae gives us the red flags of a toxic friend and Kia discusses why the longevity of a friendship may be the reason why its hard […]