DBM Ep 71: Black Keisha, Black Mamas & Forever

Dear Mama, 

What if I told you much of the growth our children may need to show up in the ways we’re nurturing them to show up comes through falling in love? When we tell our children not to focus on love, are we parenting out of fear?  What message does that send to our children about the priority to place on intimate relationships, and what generational impact does that have on our culture?  How do we raise children who know how to love?

In this raw and reflective episode, we take a deep dive into the Netflix series ‘Forever,’ using it as a powerful springboard to unpack the complexities of Black motherhood, teenage love, and generational parenting.  We’re talking parenting fears, the tightrope between nurturing and protecting our babies, and the real-life challenges that come with raising Black teens in a world that doesn’t always love them back. Y’all know us! So honest storytelling, aha moments, and of course, plenty of laughter and love.

We also get into: ✨The roots of catastrophic parenting styles and the fear of raising fuck boys ✨How generational trauma shows up at the dinner table (and in the group chat) ✨Teaching our children vulnerability & letting go ✨Why was Keisha’s Daddy so triggering

PLUS – Crystal gives a s/o to Mara Brock Akil for putting text on the screen, NeKisha questions Crystal is good at training real dogs or Ques, and Thea offers advice on how to live like we’ll survive this moment in time.  In our Black Mama Say segment for this episode, where we put our twist on sayings from Black mamas, and the saying we’re twisting this episode is “Let Me Hush Though.”

EPISODE PAUSE FOR THE CAUSE:

“Imma keep it 100.  I don’t raise f*c? boys.  I don’t wanna raise men who women have to manage.” – Crystal Tennille Irby

IMPORTANT CHURCH ANNOUNCEMENTS:

JOIN US for Talk Back: Black Keisha, Black Mamas & Forever – We’ll be watching & discussing the scenes that made you TALK BACK to the screen. REGISTER NOW!

💗Black Mama Magic Card Deck: Card #15 “Fuck Fear. An Affirmation.” 💗

EPISODES MENTIONS/RELEVANT TO THIS EPISODE:

🎙️DBM Ep 51 When It All Falls Down, Finding Freedom & Transitioning to Conscious Parenting w/ Domari Dickinson

DBM Ep 71 Companion Playlist 

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