478: Use a Map to Find Connection

Ever wonder how Laurie and George navigate a couple’s distress? They use a map (mutual attachment patterns)! In today’s episode, our experts share the map they use to help couples see the larger picture in their conflict. The emotional and sexual cycles interact and influence connection between partners. A missed bid for connection in the emotional cycle creates a ripple in the sexual cycle and a missed bid for physical intimacy can cause emotional shut down. When partners are able to zoom out and look at the map together they have a better opportunity to see where they made a wrong turn and how they can get back on course. Here are some self-reflection questions to use on your map: “Who have I been to my partner over the past few days? How have I been coming across? If my bid wasn’t taken, how did I react? Have I missed something important to my partner?” We all get lost from time to time, work with your partner to use the map to connection. Keep it hot, y’all!

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