412: Man Can’t Come

podcast November 2, 2023

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Laurie and George answer a mailbag question in this episode. “I think my husband has been faking orgasms…how can I bring this up without increasing the anxiety he may already be feeling?” We want to thank our brave listener for reaching out to us with this question and bringing up a topic that is rarely discussed. Our hosts help provide language for couples and also make more explicit the emotions that end up driving the ‘faking behavior’. Learn how to start a difficult conversation with your partner and pay attention to these key takeaways from this episode: the compliment sandwich, reducing unhealthy shame, giving men the permission to not orgasm and taking some of the pressure off. We love helping listeners with questions like this, so make sure you visit our website and drop us a note!

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