#252: Don’t text them – Sit on Your Hands

podcast December 31, 1969

In this episode of Black Girls Heal, we revisit the topic of 'No Contact' and the seven-day 'Don't Text Them: Sit on Your Effing Hands Challenge.' This discussion is aimed at those caught in addictive or trauma-bonded relationships, whether romantic, familial, or friendships.

We discuss topics like recognizing toxic relationships, the importance of breaking the cycle for self-healing, and the benefits of having a support system during this process.

We also touch on the new 90-Day No Contact Support Group, offering 90-day support for those serious about cutting trauma bonds. Tune in to learn why you deserve fulfilling relationships and how to reclaim your power and joy.

In this episode, we cover…

01:05 The importance of no contact
05:04 The Sit on Your Hands Challenge
05:28 Who this episode is for and not for
16:34 How to recognize avoidant behavior
21:58 How to start making decisions from a place of wholeness
23:13 Implementing the Sit on Your Hands Challenge
24:06 Handling communication during the challenge
25:08 Ways to focus on yourself and other relationships
28:58 How to respond to their messages
32:42 Ways to engage in self-care and hobbies

Resources mentioned in the episode:

Join our 90 Day No Contact Support Group to help you break your trauma bonded relationships, build a full life outside of the connection, heal related anxieties, and make space for healthy love.
Ready to heal your Love Addiction & Love Avoidance? Join The Recovery School, my signature coaching program to help you become love balanced, love available, and fulfilled.
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