Why Friendship First Makes Marriage Last (w/ Jenna and Dontay of Love & Fly S*** Podcast)

This week on CockTales Dirty Discussions, Kiki and Medinah sit down with Jenna and Dontay, the married duo behind the Love and Fly Sh*t podcast. They open up about their 11-year marriage, raising kids, trust, sex, and how to keep love fresh when life gets real. From funny wedding memories to navigating parenting without family nearby, this conversation is raw, relatable, and full of wisdom for anyone curious about what makes relationships work long-term.

Detailed Show Notes:
Marriage, Partnership & Real Love Lessons
Topics Covered:

• How Jenna & Dontay went from teenage crushes to married with two kids
• What they believe are the “silent killers” of marriage
• Why trust has to be earned but also given with grace
• The role of sex and intimacy in keeping a relationship alive
• Their wild destination wedding + missing the flight to their honeymoon
• Adjusting to parenthood, postpartum struggles, and learning balance
• Why friendship and communication are the foundation of their marriage
• Lessons for singles about what to look for in a lifelong partner

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Chapters:
00:00 – Intro & Cocktail of the Week: The Blushing Bride
02:00 – Meet Jenna & Dontay of Love and Fly Sht Podcast*
04:00 – Relationship games & defining cheating
09:00 – Trust, honesty & grace in marriage
13:00 – Destination wedding & honeymoon chaos
17:00 – 11 years of marriage: what keeps it fresh
27:00 – Do married people miss being single?
31:00 – Kids, postpartum, and learning balance
37:00 – Silent killers of marriage: communication, resentment & sex
44:00 – Living together before marriage
50:00 – Long engagements & playbook myths
53:00 – How to choose the right partner

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