The Top 7 Tips for Becoming the Luckiest Person You Know

If you’re ready to step into your most aligned, magnetic, and wildly lucky era — this episode is for you. We’re closing out the year with a roundup of the 7 most powerful, perspective-shifting lessons from the She’s So Lucky conversations that had you replaying, journaling, and texting the group chat.

These aren’t just motivational soundbites — they’re practical, lived-in wisdom from women who’ve made bold pivots, shut down doubt, and redefined what success looks like on their own terms.

Whether you’re manifesting a fresh start, navigating a career leap, or just trying to stay focused without losing yourself in the hustle — this episode will remind you who you are, what you’re capable of, and what happens when you stop waiting for permission.

In This Episode:

• How to stop being your own biggest critic and actually back yourself
• Knowing when it’s time to walk away (from a job, a relationship, or a version of you that no longer fits)
• The underrated superpower that took Ami Colé from idea to industry disruptor
• Gabrielle Union on choosing softness and stillness in a loud, demanding world
• The mindset shift Alexis Barber used to unapologetically step into her confidence
• How to rebrand your life — without waiting for January 1
• Taylor Rooks on what to do when people underestimate you (and why that’s not always a bad thing)

Whether you’re traveling for the holidays, cleaning your kitchen, or vision-boarding for 2026 — save this one. It’s the blueprint.

Revisit the Full Episodes:

• Are You Being Your Own Biggest Hater? Let’s Talk About It [Bonus]
• How to Know When It’s Time to Leave—Your Job, Your Partner, or Your Old Self with Nicole Walters
• The Power of Focus with Diarrha N’Diaye
• Gabrielle Union on Embracing Vulnerability, Moving Through Creative Blocks, and No Longer Going 50/50
• Stop Humbling Yourself: Owning Your Confidence with Alexis Barber
• How to Rebrand Your Life in 2025
• How to Win When People Underestimate You with Taylor Rooks

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• Shopify: Start your online business with Shopify. Sign up for your $1 per month trial at shopify.com/balancedblackgirl.
• IM8: IM8’s Daily Ultimate Essentials is my go-to drink for getting all the nutrients I need. Go to IM8health.com/lucky and use code LUCKY for a free welcome kit, five free travel packs, and 10% off your order.
• Heifer International: Spread some luck by funding a loan at heifer.org/lucky.
• Google Shopping: #sponsored See how clothes from your favorite brands look on you before you buy by visiting g.co/shop/tryon

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