S5 Ep56: He/Her/Daddy

Note: The guest of this episode now goes by Arrows Fitz and uses he/him/they/them pronouns. 

Filmmaker, model, and Youtuber Ari Fitz joins IHU to talk about their gender journey to coming out as non-binary, growing up queer, sex on reality TV, navigating accountability on twitter ad much more! 

Bae(s) of The Week: INNER HOE UPRISING! 

Hoe(s) of the Week:  Lucky W, Whitney, Tamika C.

Self Care Tips: Have monthly check in’s with yourself and your partner(s)

Cute Date Idea: Make weighted blankets together

Fuck It (Topic of the Day): Ari Fitz joins IHU to discuss their gender journey.  Points of discussion include:

Processing ones gender and sexual identity in childhood, androgyny, harmful queer archetypes,  being kind to yourself, being on reality TV whilst Black and queer, f*cking on national TV, growing and learning in the public eye, coming to the conclusion that you’re non-binary, coming out on the internet, getting canceled on Twitter, navigating hurt, harm and accountability on the internet, attraction, navigating sexual identity while non-binary, internalized femme and queerphobia in masc on masc relationships, touch-me-nots and navigating masculinity in sexual practices, fashion brands who care about queer folks, masculinity and pregnancy, telling queer stories as a filmmaker, MTV’s The Real World, Chappelle’s Show, Are You the One, YouTube, and much more!

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RELEVANT LINKS AND NOTES
Bad Bitch Affirmations: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/bad-bitch-affirmations-tickets-76587381921

Ari’s Youtube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/itsarifitz

My Mama Wears Timbs: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aRgTLb5EbiQ

Bubbles: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gkn9eJa1oXk

Joy Practice Dance Class:  Wepreacticejoy.com

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MUSIC

 Opening: “Queen S%!T” by SheReal
https://soundcloud.com/shereal/04-queen-s-t-produced-by

Fuck That: “Keeping it Cool Witchu” Chhoti Maa

End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co

ENGINEERING AND EDITING BY 
Reality Show Connoisseur Sam

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