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Is he a good guy? Or is he manipulating you?

podcast September 10, 2025


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There’s a new man in town: the “performative male.” Is he trying to trick you into thinking he’s open-minded, or does he really like reading books and drinking matcha? We’re breaking down what’s gender performance and what’s gender manipulation.

In this episode, Brittany is joined by Manny Fidel, host of No Such Thing, and James Factora, staff writer for Them. They get into what makes a “performative male” and why criticism of them is a sign that some liberals are guilty of gender policing.

Follow Brittany Luse on Instagram: @bmluse

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