He Saw His Old Crush on IG…Now He’s Unsure About Me?! #HMAY Ep. 270

In this episode, we read an email from a listener who loves her boyfriend but doesn’t feel like his first choice. We talk insecurity vs. truth, attraction, healing from past relationships, and how to discern if you’re being chosen or just convenient.

Plus, Chocolate Baby Storytime with a family rap session, camping trip confessions, and updates on Premarital Advantage, Father Yourself First, and the Saturday men’s group for Black men.

✨ What You’ll Hear

• When “I’ve got a wandering eye” is actually a confession

• The difference between normal attraction and shopping for better options

• Why journaling your story brings clarity

• Feeling chosen vs. feeling like a backup plan

• How past trauma shapes dating patterns

• Why inexperience can actually be a dating superpower

• Choosing your “hard” while still protecting your heart

📚 Resources & Links

Order the book:

👉 Father Yourself First https://www.amazon.com/Father-Yourself-First-Everything-Deserves/dp/1400252555

Audiobook:

🎧 Listen to Glen read Father Yourself First wherever audiobooks are available.

Tour dates & signings:

📍 Follow @beleafmel https://www.instagram.com/beleafmel

Premarital Advantage:

💍 Worksheets & guidance for dating, engaged, or newlywed couples https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.mykajabi.com/offers/VAbsx8N2

Dating to Marry – “The List” (FREE):

📝 Available on the homepage https://howmarriedareyoupodcast.com

Saturday Men’s Group (Black men, 7 a.m. PT)

Join the Father Meet-Up on Zoom https://us02web.zoom.us/j/81971875325?pwd=cY3k96A8j1b0WMLPHF5ym0bNSNaRdj.1

Patreon Community:

🌿 Bonus convos & behind-the-scenes https://www.patreon.com/HMAY

💬 Join the Conversation

Have you ever felt like someone’s option instead of their choice? What brought you clarity? Drop it in the comments.

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