From Toxic to Tolerable: Why That’s Not Healing

In this episode, Nique and Ress unpack the sneaky trap of calling something "growth" just because it’s not as bad as your last relationship. We get real about how easy it is to mistake a slightly better partner for a healthy one — especially when your baseline was dysfunction.

Together, we break down how to tell the difference between true healing and just trauma-dodging. We talk emotional safety, consistency, respect, and how to raise your standards beyond “he’s not terrible.” We also dig into the dangers of love bombing and the pressure to settle just because someone isn’t outright toxic.

Whether you’re dating, healing, or trying to figure out what love should even feel like — this one’s for you!