Fake it until you make it – My Relationship with Climax

In this raw and unfiltered episode of The Sophisticatedly Ratchet Podcast, the crew dives deep into one of the most misunderstood and taboo topics: orgasms—aka “The Big O.” 💥🔥

🎙️ Episode Highlights:
🔥 Faking It vs. Making It: The Tribe shares candid personal stories and tackles questions like:

• 💥 Can you tell when your partner is faking?
• 🤔 How do you respond if someone confesses they’ve never had an orgasm with you?
• 😏 Does telling a man to “cum” actually mean you want him to finish?

🚫 No More Faking! Inspired by a viral clip about women faking orgasms, the crew offers honest reflections on intimacy, performance pressure, and sexual compatibility.
💡 Mash’s Insight: He asks whether body count influences pleasure and reveals his own experiences with performance anxiety.
😏 TJ’s Toy Tales: TJ gets real about incorporating adult toys into the bedroom and how it can enhance or challenge intimacy.
💥 Flash’s Story: Flash recounts a steamy encounter and shares his thoughts on women’s authenticity in bed.
👀 Shake’s Struggle: Shake opens up about a time he couldn’t climax, sparking a powerful conversation on performance struggles for men.

💡 The crew also gets real about:
👉 The first time they experienced an orgasm 💥
👉 How porn influences sexual expectations 🎥
👉 The challenges of sparking honest conversations about sex 💬
👉 When is it okay to stay in touch with an ex? 👀

😏 Whether you’re single, in a situationship, or committed, this episode is a fun, informative, and judgment-free exploration of sexuality, pleasure, and intimacy.

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Time Stamps: 

0:00 – 1:04 Teaser

1:04 – 1:21  Intro slate

1:21-3:21 Introductions

3:21-4:03 Topic introduction 

4:03-5:30 Word of the week

5:30-5:57 “The Big O” Topic explanation

5:58- 7:05  “Stop Faking The Big O” Clip that sparked the episode 

7:06- 16:22 Crew shares their thoughts on women Faking The Big O 

16:23-18:52 Flash shares a story of when he was intimate with a woman

18:53-20:58 Shake asks men if a woman tells you she has never had an orgasm while with you

20:59-22:53 Mash asks Flash if he prefers a woman with more or less of a body count

22:54-26:08 Have you ever faked an orgasm?

26:09-29:18 Mash asks when you tell a man to cum does it indicate that you want him to finish?

29:19-32:57  Can you spot when your partner is faking an orgasm

 

32:57-36:00 Talking through the porn & sex

 

36:01-37:21 Keeping in touch with an ex

37:22-47:15 Do you remember your first orgasm?

47:15-49:29 TJ adult toy experience

49:30-53:33 Ratchet thought

53:34-55:38 Mash experience not being able to perform

57:37-59:17 Sparking a conversation with your partner about sex

59:18-1:02:19 TJ on having sex with women

1:02:20-1:04:21 Sex secretions

1:04:22-1:05:19 salutations