Episode 28: Don’t Stand On Issues, Walk With People Series: Pillar 1 – Seeking Understanding Not Victory

We’re unpacking the six pillars of our motto: Don’t stand on issues, walk with people.

This episode focuses on the first pillar: We seek understanding not victory. 

We prioritize listening and learning over winning arguments. We believe both are possible. We hold our beliefs fiercely, but we hold them with open hands, not clenched fists.

In the age of TikTok, X, and a 24-hour news cycle, it’s easy to feel like an expert on topics we actually don’t know much about. And when we feel like an expert on something, seeking understanding can feel pointless, because we already know everything, right? 

We’ve got to get to the place where we know that we don’t know everything. And that’s okay.

So how do we seek understanding? Here are a few ideas:

• Be an active listener. (Hint: it’s impossible to be an active listener on social media, so maybe have those conversations offline.)
• Limit distractions. Leave your phone in another room.
• Remember that just because someone stops talking, doesn’t mean you need to start.
• Flip the funnel: ask open-ended questions to gain a fuller picture of what the other person believes
• Remember that the other person and their beliefs are not a problem to solve. And a single conversation isn’t going to change that.

. . . . .

Listen to last week’s episode for an overview of the six pillars here: https://pod.link/1249486443/episode/17ea0d74dace025534324e77893ca97d 

. . . . .

Preorder your copy of my new book Reconnected HERE : ReconnectedBook.com 

Let’s keep in touch! Sign up for my newsletter to be the first to hear ALL my updates. https://app.e2ma.net/app2/audience/signup/1987227/1965424/

Interested in advertising with us? Reach out here.

Book me to speak HERE: https://www.carloswhittaker.com/events

. . . . .

HIYA HEALTH: Receive 50% off your first order at hiyahealth.com/HUMANHOPE

AIR DOCTOR: Head to AirDoctorPro.com and use promo code HUMANHOPE and, depending on the model, you’ll receive UP TO 39% off or UP TO $300 off!

INDEED: Need to hire? You need Indeed. Visit Indeed.com/HUMANHOPE to start hiring now.

SHOPIFY: Go to shopify.com/CARLOS to take your business to the next level today. 

Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices