Divorce, Healing & Choosing Yourself | For Mannerless Women

In this bold episode of For Mannerless Women, Adelle sits down with author and mother of four, Felgonah Oya, who shares her powerful story of getting divorced at 31 with four young children. Felgonah opens up about:

• Walking away from a marriage despite family and societal pressure.
• The shocking reactions she faced from friends and relatives.
• The long, messy, expensive reality of divorce in Kenya.
• Her raw healing journey—allowing herself to grieve, get angry, and slowly rebuild.
• Rediscovering identity, love, and dating after divorce.
• Writing as a form of survival and her latest book I’m Healed, Send Me Another Man.

This episode is a reminder that choosing yourself is not failure, it’s freedom.
Tap in for an honest, unfiltered conversation about divorce, healing, identity, and living life on your own terms.

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