Todd Gongwer | Unlock Leadership That Lasts

What if the biggest thing holding you back from peak performance isn’t your talent, discipline, or work ethic — but what you’re carrying in your heart?

In this episode of Coming Up Clutch with J.R., J.R. sits down with leadership expert, author, and coach Todd Gongwer, author of Lead…For God’s Sake, for a raw, grounded conversation about identity, humility, forgiveness, and what truly drives sustainable leadership and performance.

This isn’t a surface-level leadership talk. It’s a deep dive into the inner game most leaders avoid — and why avoiding it quietly sabotages performance, relationships, and influence.

So, if you’re ready to lead with purpose, and make a lasting impact, lock in to this episode!

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• Why chasing titles, money, or results is dangerous – and what to pursue instead.
• How humility unlocks true self-awareness and helps you spot blind spots before they derail you.
• The powerful link between forgiveness and peak performance
• Why self-forgiveness is critical for confidence, influence, and lasting leadership impact.
• How digital distractions are rewiring our brains – and simple steps to protect your focus and relationships.

Key Quotes

• “Leadership begins with influence that flows from our character.” – Todd Gongwer
• “You’re gonna perform at your best when you’re free. And the bottom line is, when you’re walking in unforgiveness, you’re not free.” – Todd Gongwer
• “Humility is not thinking less of yourself. It’s thinking of yourself less.” – Todd Gongwer (quoting C.S. Lewis)

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• Website: https://kardiatg.com/
• Book: LEAD…For God’s Sake!

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