S4 Ep13: Sex, Romance, & Disability

Akua & Sam are joined by guest Kym Oliver a disabled, wheelchair-using, writer, speaker and health coach, to discuss the intersections of sex, romance and disability,

Hoe(s) of the Week: Desiree A, Shante, Faheema & Flash Magazine, Michael H.

Self Care Tips: Don’t forget to pack a condom

Fuck It (Topic of the Day): A conversation with Kym Oliver about the intersection of disability and sexuality. Topics of discussion include: A multiple sclerosis explainer, MS symptoms, ataxia, fatigue, invisible illness, black women and pain, medical symptom in the UK, dating in a wheelchair, fetishizes, vulnerability, emotional labor, wheelchair inaccessibility, physical intimacy, being unapologetic, online dating, dirty talk, sexual logistics, sex drive, sex checklist, the myth of spontaneous sex, bacterial vaginosis, IUD, fatigue, self-esteem, coercion, sexual assault, victim blaming yourself, remembering your worth, situationships, agency, wasted time, great head & much more.

TRIGGER WARNING(S)

1:07:30 – 1:10:40 Suicidal Ideations, Sexual Assault & Medical Maltreatment

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#PODINLIVENYC (Black Pod Meet-Up)

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RESOURCES FOR FOLKS LIVING WITH MULTIPLE SCLEROSIS

MS TRUST (Symptoms and treatments)

https://www.mstrust.org.uk/understanding-ms/ms-symptoms-and-treatments/symptoms

THE SHANE PROJECT (Support for POC with MS)

Home

MS MISSING PIECES (An MS Explainer)

https://www.msmissingpieces.co.uk/whatisms

MS SOCIETY (Alternative ways to manage symptoms)

https://www.mssociety.org.uk/complementary-and-alternative-therapies

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SPEAKING GIGS

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MUSIC


Opening: “Queen S%!T” SheReal

Fuck It: "Party on the Weekend" King Kam X DVRKAMBR

End: “Yeah Yeah” Abstract Fish Co

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Show | IG: @InnerHoeUprising | Twitter: @InnerHoeUprisin

Akua | IG, Twitter & Snap: @heyyakuagirl

Sam | IG & Twitter: @slamridd

Kym | IG: @thekymoliver | Twitter: @tweetkymoliver | Snap: @thegoddessKO

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