437: Dr. Robert Melillo on The Disconnected Brain: Why We Feel “Off” and What We Can Do About It

“Most mental health issues don’t come from damage. They come from imbalance.”

What if ADHD, autism, anxiety, depression, and even chronic gut issues were not “disorders”… but signs of a brain that developed out of balance?

In this deep and eye-opening conversation, I sit down with Dr. Robert Melillo, one of the world’s leading experts in brain development, to talk about what’s really happening inside the brain, especially in children who struggle to speak, focus, connect, or regulate emotions.

We explore the idea of the disconnected brain, the role of the right and left hemispheres, why so many people are misunderstood, and why what looks like a “problem” might actually be a hidden gift.

This episode challenges everything we’ve been taught about mental health, learning difficulties, and labels. It brings science, real stories, and a completely different way of seeing the brain.

This conversation gave me chills and a lot of hope.

If you’ve ever felt like something was “off”, but no one could explain why, this episode might change the way you see yourself (and others) forever.

Timestamps

(00:04:50) – His son’s ADHD diagnosis and the moment everything changed (00:08:10) – What a “disconnected brain” really means (00:11:45) – Why most mental health labels don’t explain the real problem (00:15:40) – Why movement is the foundation of brain development (00:19:30) – How the right and left hemispheres develop differently (00:23:10) – Primitive reflexes and their impact on learning and behavior (00:27:30) – The real reason some children don’t speak (00:31:20) – Autism, gifted brains, and hidden intelligence (00:35:40) – Why many autistic children know more than we imagine (00:39:10) – Being “trapped in a body you can’t control” (00:42:30) – How parents can truly support and reconnect with their child (00:44:10) – Can the brain change? Healing, medication, and hope (00:49:20) – Gut health, immunity, and the brain connection (00:52:40) – What adults with anxiety and ADHD need to know (00:55:30) – Dr. Melillo’s three life lessons about success and purpose (00:58:40) – Final message: your brain is not broken, it’s adaptable

Questions I Ask:

• What does a disconnected brain actually mean?
• How can a child be non-verbal and still be highly intelligent?
• What really causes autism and ADHD in brain development?
• What throws the brain off in childhood?
• Can the brain truly change at any age?
• Is medication necessary, or are we just treating symptoms?
• How can parents better support children who struggle?
• What would you say to adults who recognize themselves in this?

In This episode You’ll learn:

• What a “disconnected brain” really means (in simple words).
• Why autism and ADHD are often linked to gifted brains.
• The real reason some children don’t speak.
• How movement shapes brain development.
• Why medication manages symptoms, but doesn’t fix the root.
• And how the brain can change at any age.

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