355: Am I too much? Will I always hunger for this connection?

“Am I too much? Will I always hunger for this connection?” If these are common questions you’ve asked yourself while stuck in a negative cycle with your partner you may be a sexual pursuer. Join George and Laurie in today’s episode where they discuss new ways sexual pursuers can communicate their needs in Stage–2 of EFT. In Stage 2 the couple is aware of their negative cycle and understanding of the good reasons they have been missing each other. Stage 2 is the creation of a positive cycle that is focused on understanding, connection and expression of needs. The work of the sexual pursuer in Stage 2 is to soften the expression of those needs–rather than using criticism to express the felt rejection, working towards expressing with vulnerability. George and Lauri’s role play will provide reassurance that new conversations and getting needs met are possible as couples are working together against the cycle in a new cycle that fosters closeness and connection.

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