What if the exhaustion you’re carrying… is actually grief? In this powerful and deeply personal episode, Kelley Bonner opens up about the layered, often invisible nature of grief—and how it has quietly shaped her healing. From the loss of her father to unexpected feelings around legacy, motherhood, and slowing down, this episode is a compassionate invitation to feel what’s real, honor what’s hard, and still choose expansion. Grief doesn’t have to shrink you. It can soften you, grow you, and gently guide you into a more grounded version of yourself.
What You’ll Learn
- How grief shows up beyond death—through broken dreams, career changes, and shifting identities
- Why slowing down can be a sacred and necessary act of healing
- How to listen to your body’s cues during a season of loss
- Gentle tools to transform grief into personal growth
Key Takeaways & Timestamps:
[00:03:00] – Naming the Hidden Grief Beneath Burnout
Kelley reframes anxiety, anger, and burnout as signs of unacknowledged grief.
[00:10:35] – Grief Will Slow You Down (And That’s a Gift)
Kelley shares how loss forced her into stillness, softness, and deeper presence.
[00:14:49] – Grief Expands More Than Pain
Unexpected emotions can rise—career regret, lost dreams, and shifting identity.
[00:22:15] – Three Invitations for Healing Through Grief
In the final section, Kelley shares three powerful practices to process grief: (1) honor the pause, (2) let your body lead, and (3) allow buried feelings to surface gently. Each tip is an invitation to let grief expand—not harden—your heart.
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Remember: You’re not broken—just breaking open. Let grief grow you.
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