We start with a story that leaves one of us feeling powerless in our own home, then use it to question how consent and leverage can show up in everyday co-parenting. We keep pulling the thread into gender power dynamics, double standards, and what real accountability looks like when nobody wants to admit harm.
• a co-parenting ultimatum that turns safety into leverage
• feeling violated without physical force and why it still counts
• why society downplays harm when boys and men are the target
• physical strength versus authority, influence, and professional hierarchy
• therapist client ethics and how trust can be weaponised
• workplace flirtation, social pressure, and fear of consequences
• club and party examples that reveal consent blind spots
• why “women do it too” can become a deflection tactic
• setting standards as men and staying consistent under pressure
• building self trust through small wins, discipline, and time horizons
June 27th, you know, cookout, field day.
Let’s go to Patreon, fuck it.
IG: @terryroseland & @amansperspective_