Why does it take longer? Bc most people are too worried about being liked by everyone they are around and not willing to create a plan that they stick to Bc it’s going to bother ppl that they have changed their life…. and being lonely or not having the same friends around you changes your comfort zone- as Inky johnson says and my boy Tuck- your comfort zone is a beautiful place where nothing grows… and if you want more or you want different you can’t stay the same. You can’t go where you want to go and stay where you are.