EP. 17: Good Things Come From Pleasure Ft. Shelah Marie

We are back with another amazing episode! Samia has the amazing Shelah Marie on the show! Y’all know her as the founder of the Curly Conscious Movement & The Unruly Retreat and author of “A Positive You.” We’re diving deep into topics from gaslighting to trauma to manifest masturbating as a couple, we cover it all!

Here are some of the highlights:

(2:35) People tell me no all the time, and that’s OK! 

(3:57) After having a baby, Shelah helped Samia regain her confidence and find her inner power. 

(4:42)Today’s Adult Tip of the Day: Stop Gaslighting yourself and start believing in yourself. 

(8:35) Black women gaslight themselves the most and it’s time to stop. 

(15:43) Do all women have a little gay in them? 

(19:40) Does the Bi-romantic vs Bi-sexuality conversation perpetuate misogyny? (Tweet) 

(28:35) Shelah shares her trauma and how she’s worked through it. 

(32:49) Samia opens up about her trauma to Shelah and references the back story, which is detailed in  Episode 1. 

(37:18) They discuss alternative healing methods as an alternative to religion. 

(43:57) Samia explains EMDR and they share their experiences with it. 

(52:28) There are other options for therapy, such as using scuba diving as a therapeutic session. 

(57:21) Astrology is a language – if you don’t “believe,” just say you don’t speak it. 

(1:01:16) Shelah shares a scene from her past life regression session, which was a powerful and transformative experience. 

(1:06:00)In today’s Spiritual Tip of the Day, they discuss masturbation and manifestation as a couple and how Shelah used it for goal setting.  

Refer to Ep. 6, for the Natal Chart explained in the Spiritual Tip of the Day 

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Dr. Rahmani was on Red Table Talk discussing the difference between gaslighting and lying. 

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